Start your summer with a bang!

Are you excited about Summer 2018? Do you have any trips planned to that beautiful Island you've been dreaming of? Here are some tips to start your summer with a bang.

1. Be Happy

With all the snow storm and poor weather conditions we've had in NYC, it's only right to start your summer off with an attitude of gratitude.

2. Check out all the travel deals

Travel Pirates has some amazing travel deals. Research the perfect vacation to the Caribbean or Europe.

3. Replenish your wardrobe with some bright and colorful fashion finds

Outfit Details:

Hair:  $16 Big Beautiful Hair By Outre (Purchase at Use (INFLUENCE) To get 5% off)

Dress: Shein

Shoes: Puma

Eyewear: Modo Eyewear

This photo shoot was made in collaboration by Shein and all my opinions are my own. The additional looks shared in this post were styled by me.

Thank you for reading!

Love Tiffany

The Importance of setting personal boundaries

In 2018 I've been focusing a lot on my personal growth and I wanted to share something that I've struggled with for sometime "Setting personal boundaries and learning when to say no or yes". "The purpose of having boundaries is to protect and take care of ourselves.  We need to be able to tell other people when they are acting in ways that are not acceptable to us or when to say yes or no to someone. 

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Know that you have a right to personal boundaries. You not only have the right, but you must take responsibility for how you allow others to treat you. Your boundaries act as filters permitting what is acceptable in your life and what is not. If you don't have boundaries that protect and define you, as in a strong sense of identity, you tend to derive your sense of worth from others. To avoid this situation, set clear and decisive limits so that others will respect them, then be willing to do whatever it takes to enforce them. Interestingly, it's been shown that those who have weak boundaries themselves tend to violate the boundaries of others. 

Recognize that other people's needs and feelings are not more important than your own. Many women have traditionally thought that the needs of their husbands and children are more important than their own. This is not only untrue, but it can undermine the healthy functioning of the family dynamic. If a woman is worn out mentally and physically from putting everyone else first, she not only destroys her own health, she in turn deprives her family of being fully engaged in their lives. Instead, she should encourage every family member to contribute to the whole as well as take care of himself or herself. Putting themselves last is not something only women do, but many men as well.

Learn to say no. Many of us are people-pleasers and often put ourselves at a disadvantage by trying to accommodate everyone. We don't want to be selfish, so we put our personal needs on the back burner and agree to do things that may not be beneficial to our well-being. Actually, a certain amount of "selfishness" is necessary for having healthy personal boundaries. You do not do anyone any favors, least of all yourself, by trying to please others at your own expense. 


Identify the actions and behaviors that you find unacceptable. Let others know when they've crossed the line, acted inappropriately, or disrespected you in any way. Do not be afraid to tell others when you need emotional and physical space. Allow yourself to be who you really are without pressure from others to be anything else. Know what actions you may need to take if your wishes aren't respected.  

Trust and believe in yourself. You are the highest authority on you. You know yourself best. You know what you need, want, and value. Don't let anyone else make the decisions for you. Healthy boundaries make it possible for you to respect your strengths, abilities and individuality as well as those of others. An unhealthy imbalance occurs when you encourage neediness, or are needy; want to be rescued, or are the rescuer, or when you choose to play the victim.



You're Not A Black Panther Fan Until You go To the Movies Looking Like These Fans.

Black Panther Fans are really representing around the globe. Look at all of this black magic happening. Haven't seen the movie as yet? here are some inspired outfits.

#BlackPanther #BlackExcellence #RedCarpet #Premiere #Nigeria

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I’m black and I’m proud ✊🏿#blackpanther

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#Blackpanther, #Leeds, #whiteroseshoppingcentre , #goodpeople, #onelove

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Living Life Abundantly & Walking Away From Negativity

I have always been told to live my best life, so thats exactly what I'm doing girlfriend.


You see, there are some individuals in our lives who are like vines/weeds and no matter where you go or what you do their negativity always follow. It wasn't until I entered my senior year in college that I truly understood that. Though a bit late, I was eager to separate myself, as I had envisioned a life of full abundance. No drama, no nothing!...... This also included unhealthy friendships and relationships.


You or a friend might feel like you are on a one-way street or in a complete standstill in life, but I have news for you, my friend. Don't loose hope just yet. Muster up a little faith, observe your circle and think about what needs to stay and what needs to go.

I know it's not an easy thing to do. But you were made to live life in abundance. You were made to succeed. You were made to prosper. You were made to be at peace. You were made to be love. You were made to be anything that you desire to be.But first, You have to walk away from everything that is hold you back.  

What if I told you that you should live life in abundance and walk away from everything that is negative or holding you back from accomplishing the things that you desire, would you agree with me?...... Yea, I'm sure you'll agree, but the real question is, will you find the strength to actually put it into action?